So far I have been sad most of the time. Don't try to fill the silence and rush to say something like "but I know you are super busy. I was sure I was just over sensitive until I read your posts. At the beginning of the relationship, which is not long ago, he use to carry out conversations, even while working. Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here.



Sunday is considered sacred by Mormons, and they do not undertake any entertaining or outdoor activities that result in spending, on that day. And the you've seen the CES letter. Really have to walk in someone's shoes to understand. Thank you for this web site blog-I have enjoyed reading these similiar experiences of ladies married to physicians or soon to be physicians. I just wanted to tell you that I am grateful for your words!.
If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. If I were to signal him everytime I thought about him, I'd be on the phone with him almost all of my waking hours. One small thing to add here. Made me feel ok to read this Thank you for writing. So you made a wise decision. I knew I was going to be alone much of the time and for the most part I can handle it. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community.
Try to find out his schedule in detail. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere.